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First
Date Tips ::.
::. Flirting is an attitude. A good flirt is self-confident
and not afraid to take risks. Be enthusiastic and positive,
it works!
::. Start a conversation. The best opening line is saying
hello. Talk about the surroundings, ask a question,
ask for help, state an opinion.
::. Have fun. Be playful, light-hearted and spontaneous.
Show your vulnerability.
::. Be the host. Change your behavior from the role
of guest to host. You are not the passive person in
waiting, but rather the welcome committee.
::. Make the first move. Move closer to the person you
want to meet. Say hello!
::. Listen. You have two ears and one mouth because
you should listen twice as much as you speak. Listening
is a true art. Your flirting partner will be drawn to
you. Everyone loves to be heard.
::. Eye contact. Make eye contact, but please look your
partner in the eye gently (no more than 2-4 seconds)
and then glance away. Don't stare - it's a turn off.
::.Compliment. Compliment your flirting partner. The
best compliments have the element of surprise. The "flirtee"
will know that you really noticed them. Remember, your
compliments must be honest, sincere and genuine. When
you receive a compliment the best response is merely,
Thank You!
::. Smile. It is contagious. It will make you so much
more approachable. A smile lights up your face and draws
people to you. You will be a people magnet. Try it!
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