First Date Tips ::.

::. There are no magic that make a date work.
Stop looking for love on the first date. It doesn't work that way. Take it instead as an opportunity to find out more about the other person. You may have been friends before, but on a date the dynamics change. Use the first date as an exploratory mechanism to study the other person and figure out if there is a need for a second date.

::. A little harmless flirting never hurt anyone.
Flirting adds spice to the conversation and keeps your date interested. You should try flirting at every given opportunity. Women love it when a man appreciates her. Please try not to be crude, aggressive or overbearing… just keep the conversation on a friendly level.

::. Try not to be a phony on your first date.
Women generally have in-built radars and can spot a phony a mile away. This of course applies to men also. Present your best side but always be yourself. Love will find you; it's that simple. Date deception may work on the first date but if you are interested in prolonging the relationship it becomes harder to enact a charade.

::. The success of a date depends a lot on your nature.
If you are happy and have self-esteem, you would be happy even if the date weren't going that well. Remember, people tend to pick up on subliminal signals that you emanate and react accordingly. If you have a positive vibe, your date will respond in kind. So this is the secret. Fancy cars, a sculpted body or the right clothes don't make a person - it is your outlook to life that does it. You are a pleasure to be with because you are basically happy with your life and this rubs off on the person you are with.

::. Lets (not) talk about sex baby.
Reflect on the good times you have had with friends of the opposite sex. The success of the relationship you shared with them was due to the lack of sexual tension in the air. Treat your first date as an extension of this principle. Try to develop bonds of friendship first before going on to the next stage. Remember, you can only be lovers if you are friends first.