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Love Language ::.
Do you know what "love languages"
are? A Love Language is how someone wants to be shown
love because it satisfies a deep-seated need.The four
love languages are Quality Time, Words of Affirmation,
Gifts and Physical Touch.
Quality : Time refers to spending time together as a
couple. People who have this as their love language
feel loved when they are taken out on special dates
and gives time for the conversation
Others prefer Words of Affirmation as a way to be shown
love. Telling your partner how you appreciate them,
encouraging them, and general words of praise and acceptance
all show your love.
If Gifts is your partners love language, then
you need to understand that for them, gifts are not
simply material objects -- they are expressions of your
love.
Some people prefer Physical Touch as their love language.
A simple touch on the arm, hug or backrub will convey
your love to them.
Problems occur when partner do not recognize each other's
love language and attempt to show love in ways that
are less meaningful to the other partner. For example,
consider if your partner has the love language of Quality,
but you assume they would rather have gifts. They might
be appreciative of your presents, but your love would
be more obvious to them if you give your quality time
for the conversation.
So find out what your partners's love language is and
show them love in the ways that they can best understand.
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